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		<title>Sometimes you just have to eat all the cookie dough.</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 19:24:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A recent conversation (over a computer) between Ben (poolhouseblue) &#38; I: &#160; poolhouseblue:  so, i got home and the freezer was a little bit open, something pushed the door open a bit from inside, everything seemed ok except the bit of fruit and the icecream, which was totally melted. so i ate all the cookie dough [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A recent conversation (over a computer) between Ben (poolhouseblue) &amp; I:</p>
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<p><strong>poolhouse<wbr>blue:</wbr></strong>  so, i got home and the freezer was a little bit open, something pushed the door open a bit from inside, everything seemed ok except the bit of fruit and the icecream, which was totally melted.</p>
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<div id=":1e9" dir="ltr">so i ate all the cookie dough out of it and threw the rest away</div>
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<div><strong>me:</strong>  lol</div>
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<div><strong>poolhouse</strong><wbr><strong>blue:</strong>  that seemed to be the best solution</wbr></div>
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<div><strong>me: </strong> obviously</div>
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		<title>Free Stuff</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Dec 2011 03:15:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Im trying to get rid of some things. Any of this is free for the taking. Just let me know if you want it an ill get it to you. If it involves shipping just pay me for the shipping, plus a bit for the time and materials. Ok&#8230;here we go&#8230; I made this box [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Im trying to get rid of some things. Any of this is free for the taking. Just let me know if you want it an ill get it to you. If it involves shipping just pay me for the shipping, plus a bit for the time and materials.</p>
<p>Ok&#8230;here we go&#8230;</p>
<p>I made this box in college, it held my portfolio. Its made out of cardboard and aluminum its 14x18x6 inches. It has all thread that goes through the lid and box to hold it closed, so its not very practical, but would be cool as a gift box, prop, or something like that.</p>
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<p>Old software:</p>
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<p>About 200 empty CD cases. Really I have no idea why anybody would want this&#8230;perhaps conceptual art about the death of the cd or something:</p>
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<p>Finally, a bunch of prints of some of my photography. I thought I would try to sell these, but never really put the effort into it that it takes. They are various sizes, and some of them are unfortunately glued to cardboard. Let me know which ones you want&#8230;you dont have to take them all of course. Just ignore the prices&#8230;they are free&#8230;unless you want to pay for them, I wont turn you down.</p>

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		<title>Christmas Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 01:57:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We had a low-key Christmas this year. We stayed at home, just the two of us. Might be the first time we&#8217;ve done that in 8 years of marriage. We talked with our families via phone &#38; skype. And missed being with all of them. But this has been a full year for us (traveling-wise) [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We had a low-key Christmas this year. We stayed at home, just the two of us. Might be the first time we&#8217;ve done that in 8 years of marriage.</p>
<p>We talked with our families via phone &amp; skype. And missed being with all of them. But this has been a full year for us (traveling-wise) &amp; having just moved a few weeks ago, it has been nice to have a few very quiet days at home (and at work.)<br />
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<p>It has been hard for me to get into the Christmas spirit this year, I think because of all the craziness of the last month. But we did do a few things to get all holly &amp; jolly&#8230;</p>
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<li>We went to see the 91st presentation of Handel&#8217;s Messiah by the Lutheran churches here in town. It&#8217;s a small presentation, but we always really enjoy the simple simplicity of it.<br />
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<li>We made &amp; decorated Christmas cookies with our small group &amp; gave them to our neighbors. (We also ate some of them ourselves.)<br />
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<li> We continued our tradition of getting our Christmas trees with our friends the Burrys. Love those <a href="http://www.thewilkinsonchristmasforest.com/">Wilkinsons</a>!</li>
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<li><span style="color: #000000;">We went downtown to go ice skating with some friends from our small group. There&#8217;s a really big tree down there. Really big.<br />
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<li><span style="color: #000000;">And today after church we came home &amp; made <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/%C3%86bleskiver">aebleskivers </a>for lunch. They aren&#8217;t something we make very often, so it&#8217;s always a fun treat.<br />
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<p>Merry Christmas!</p>
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		<title>This year I&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Dec 2011 19:27:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Beth</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Cut my hair pretty short. And I wish I would have done it a long time ago. I love it! &#160; Started selling my cards more at local craft shows. I even have them in a retail store in Northwest Arkansas!https://www.facebook.com/mustachegw Took a road trip along old Rte. 66 to Oklahoma City. Got snowed into [...]]]></description>
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<li>Cut my hair pretty short. And I wish I would have done it a long time ago. I love it!<br />
<a href="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/profile.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1692" title="profile" src="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/profile-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a>&nbsp;</li>
<li style="text-align: center;">Started selling my cards more at local craft shows. I even have them in a retail store in Northwest Arkansas!<a href="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/270685_174138415986613_147092122024576_431428_7661137_n.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1697" title="270685_174138415986613_147092122024576_431428_7661137_n" src="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/270685_174138415986613_147092122024576_431428_7661137_n-300x136.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="136" /></a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/mustachegw">https://www.facebook.com/mustachegw</a></li>
<li style="text-align: left;">Took a road trip along old Rte. 66 to Oklahoma City.</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">Got snowed into our apartment for a whole week. (Which I sort of loved.)</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">Started taking Pilates classes. (Which we LOVE).</li>
<li>Discovered that the stick of butter that is called for in my corn casserole recipe is not entirely necessary. I put a stick of butter in the microwave to melt it; made the casserole; ate it (&amp; it tasted awesome, as it usually does.) The next day at lunch when I opened the microwave to re-heat a piece I found the butter like this. Crazy that I didn&#8217;t notice it was missing AT ALL.<br />
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<li>Spent two weeks in Uganda.<br />
<a href="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/ben-@-Bulyakawi.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1378" title="ben @ Bulyakawi" src="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/08/ben-@-Bulyakawi-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /><br />
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<li>Spent 2 weeks in Europe.</li>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a style="text-align: center;" href="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/shot_1313325429949.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1694" title="shot_1313325429949" src="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/shot_1313325429949-258x300.jpg" alt="" width="258" height="300" /></a>[Our typical lunch meal. Bread + Cheese + Nutella]</p>
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<li style="text-align: left;">Went to a family reunion in Estes Park.</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">Started working full time at our church as the Guest Services Director. This is one of my favorite things I&#8217;ve done so far. It&#8217;s a wall of canvases in the Cafe Mosaic/lobby area.<br />
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<li style="text-align: left;">Installed a coffee bar in our dining room.</li>
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<li style="text-align: left;">celebrated our 8th anniversary.</li>
<li style="text-align: left;">moved.<br />
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<div style="text-align: left;">It has been a full year. We&#8217;ve had some wonderful adventures, and shared life with some wonderful people.</div>
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		<title>The ___________ Parade</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Dec 2011 20:47:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ben</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There seems to be a yearly controversy in Tulsa&#8230;the parade that happens on a date close to Christmas. What should it be called? Now, everybody has their opinion about this, and for some reason it is always a big deal. I thought I would throw in my $0.02. This year of course there are two [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There seems to be a yearly controversy in Tulsa&#8230;the parade that happens on a date close to Christmas. What should it be called? Now, everybody has their opinion about this, and for some reason it is always a big deal. I thought I would throw in my $0.02.</p>
<p>This year of course there are two parades. The Christmas Parade and the Holiday Parade. The new Christmas Parade was started this year because people wanted a parade with the word Christmas in the name. I have to say that from the beginning I honestly thought the Christmas Parade was not a positive thing. There are several reason. Mostly because it is divisive. Ignore the religious aspects for a second. Tulsa, it seems to me, is a divided city any way. Its a small city, but people do not experience much of it (me included), we are very isolated in our small areas. A parade downtown should be an opportunity for people to gather in a part of the city that should belong to everybody, a place that should be common ground. Instead we have two parade, one in the south, one in the north (and the one in the south is at the mall, which is of course all important in a successful Christmas season).</p>
<p>Then there is the whole &#8220;Christ back in Christmas&#8221; thing. I have never been much of a fan of how we(I) as Christians form our own subculture rather then engaging and redeeming the culture around us. It seems that all this does is create a void in the culture around us, a void of redemption, a void that tells people around us we are scared of, too good for, or better then, them.</p>
<p>We went to the Holiday Parade. It was clearly void of references to Christ (except for all those people on the floats wishing us Marry Christmas). I don&#8217;t remember any manger scene or even an angel (but there was <a href="http://twitter.com/#!/thislandpress/status/145672299910135808/photo/1">a really awesome snowman robot</a>). But, here is the thing: this was by the choice of Christ&#8217;s people. All the Jesus stuff was down in south Tulsa at the mall. Instead of being willing to be a part of culture and proclaim Christ along side Cain&#8217;s charity for the homeless, a non-religious (or perhaps Muslim, I&#8217;m not sure) proclamation of peace on earth, the Salvation Arm&#8217;s drive to help the needy, and of course the robot snowman, Christ&#8217;s people preached to the choir. We should be joining with these organizations as they work to help those around them, just as we are to be helping those around us. Are we scared that God can&#8217;t stand up to the marketplace of ideas?</p>
<p>I honestly am hesitant to post this. Not because I&#8217;m worried you wont agree with me, but because it just adds a small voice to something that is already overblown, Everybody should have a parade if they want one I suppose. But, in the end I wish I would engage people around me instead of running away. The Holiday Parade tonight was a stark reminder of that to me.</p>
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		<title>Thirty Days of Thankful: Day 30</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2011 20:15:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am also thankful for travel &#38; adventures. Specifically the ones we were able to have this year. &#160; I saw Africa (or at least a small portion of it). And I saw Europe (again, a small portion of it). {This is me turning 31 over a banana &#38; chocolate Dutch pancake.} {In Amsterdam.} {Which [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am also thankful for travel &amp; adventures. Specifically the ones we were able to have this year.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>I saw Africa (or at least a small portion of it). And I saw Europe (again, a small portion of it).</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/shot_1313338996626.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1682" title="shot_1313338996626" src="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/shot_1313338996626-258x300.jpg" alt="" width="258" height="300" /></a>{This is me turning 31 over a banana &amp; chocolate Dutch pancake.}<br />
{In Amsterdam.}<br />
{Which was approximately the size of my face.}</p>
<p style="text-align: center;">I am a blessed lady.</p>
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		<title>Thirty Days of Thankful: Day 29</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2011 20:07:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know, I know. It&#8217;s December. (Well into December, actually.) But I am thankful for people in our lives who care for us. Who look out for us. Who encourage us. And who challenge us. We are blessed.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know, I know. It&#8217;s December. (Well into December, actually.)</p>
<p>But I am thankful for people in our lives who care for us. Who look out for us. Who encourage us. And who challenge us. We are blessed.</p>
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		<title>Thirty Days of Thankful: Day 28</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2011 12:35:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am thankful for stories {books &#38; movies} that remind us where we&#8217;ve come from. I just recently finished &#8220;Amazing Grace&#8221; {movie} &#38; &#8220;The Help&#8221; {movie, then book}. &#160; I am grateful we are where we are now, but am hopeful for more change {love for each other} to come.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am thankful for stories {books &amp; movies} that remind us where we&#8217;ve come from. I just recently finished &#8220;Amazing Grace&#8221; {movie} &amp; &#8220;The Help&#8221; {movie, then book}.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>I am grateful we are where we are now, but am hopeful for more change {love for each other} to come.</p>
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		<title>Thirty Days of Thankful: Day 27</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2011 00:33:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am thankful for this guy: He has done a really great job taking care of me during this crazy-I-can&#8217;t-take-any-more month. &#160; {And I&#8217;m thankful for the lovely Esther for this amazing shot!}]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am thankful for this guy:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/Ben-@-Sullivans-Wedding.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1675" title="Ben @ Sullivan's Wedding" src="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/Ben-@-Sullivans-Wedding-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" /></a></p>
<p>He has done a really great job taking care of me during this crazy-I-can&#8217;t-take-any-more month.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>{And I&#8217;m thankful for the lovely <a href="http://photosbyesther.com/">Esther </a>for this amazing shot!}</p>
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		<title>Thirty Days of Thankful: Day 26</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Nov 2011 14:00:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am thankful for these tomatoes. We planted them in the spring. And {amazingly} they survived the millions of days this summer with 100+ degree heat. {And near misses w/ tornadoes} {And earthquakes} {And freezing temps at night} &#160; They finally started producing tomatoes in September. And when it started freezing at night, we would [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am thankful for these tomatoes.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/shot_1318291476517.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1670" title="shot_1318291476517" src="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/shot_1318291476517-258x300.jpg" alt="" width="258" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>We planted them in the spring. And {amazingly} they survived the millions of days this summer with 100+ degree heat.</p>
<p>{And near misses w/ tornadoes}</p>
<p>{And earthquakes}</p>
<p>{And freezing temps at night}</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
<p>They finally started producing tomatoes in September. And when it started freezing at night, we would bring them in off the porch &amp; then put them back outside the next morning. After only a few days of this I got tired of lugging them in &amp; out. {They are heavy!}</p>
<p><a href="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/shot_1318291494909.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1671" title="shot_1318291494909" src="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/shot_1318291494909-258x300.jpg" alt="" width="258" height="300" /></a></p>
<p>So I just started leaving them out there. And a few days after, I realized the tomatoes were still green. I figured they&#8217;d never ripen because it hasn&#8217;t been getting very warm {or sunny} lately. So I picked them all off, and thought about frying them up.</p>
<p>But they sat in the bowl on the counter for a few days before I did anything with them. And then one day, I realized they were turning red.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/shot_1322261143013.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1672" title="shot_1322261143013" src="http://www.benandbethwest.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/shot_1322261143013-300x300.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="300" /></a><br />
I&#8217;m calling these my &#8220;magic tomatoes&#8221;. They are troopers.</p>
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